Tactical Notebook Index

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A B C D E F G H I L N O P R S T U
Self (The)
The psychological concept of "the self" refers to the way individuals perceive, understand, and define their own identity, thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It encompasses both how we view ourselves internally (our self-concept) and how we believe we are seen by others ( our social identity).

Social Psychology
Investigates how people influence, and are influenced by, their social environment, including social interactions, group behavior, attitudes, and identity. Social psychologists study phenomena such as prejudice, group dynamics, conformity, and interpersonal relationships.

System 1 Thinking
The fast, automatic, and intuitive mode of thinking in the dual-process theory of cognition (popularized by psychologist Daniel Kahneman). It operates effortlessly and continuously, handling most of our daily decisions without conscious awareness.

Key Features of System 1


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  1. Fast & Automatic

    • Reacts instantly (e.g., jerking your hand from a hot stove).

    • No deliberate effort required.



  2. Unconscious & Effortless

    • Runs in the background (e.g., reading facial expressions, understanding language).



  3. Emotion-Driven

    • Linked to instincts, gut feelings, and snap judgments.



  4. Heuristic-Based

    • Uses mental shortcuts (heuristics) for efficiency, but these can lead to biases.




System 2 Thinking
The slow, effortful, and logical mode of thinking in psychology's dual-process theory (developed by Daniel Kahneman). Unlike the automatic System 1, System 2 handles complex tasks that require focus, reasoning, and self-control.

Key Features of System 2


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  • Slow & Deliberate

    • Processes information step-by-step (e.g., solving 17 × 24).

    • Operates at ~40 bits/second (vs. System 1’s ~11 million bits/second).



  • Conscious & Effortful

    • Requires attention and mental energy (like a muscle that tires).

    • You’re aware you’re using it.



  • Rule-Based & Logical

    • Follows formal logic (e.g., "If A > B and B > C, then A > C").

    • Checks System 1’s intuitive guesses for errors.



  • Flexible & Adaptable

    • Learns new skills (e.g., driving stick shift, coding).

    • Can override impulsive System 1 responses (e.g., resisting dessert).



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