About The Love & Iron Project Serving Targeted Parents and Families Since 2011. The Problem: A System Built to Exploit Families Family court operates under the banner of “the best interests of the child.” The reality, exposed by decades of clinical research, government census data, and hard-won firsthand experience, tells a very different story. The […]
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The bystander effect is a social psychological phenomenon where individuals are less likely to offer help to a victim when other people are present. The more bystanders there are, the less responsibility each person feels, often leading to inaction. This diffusion of responsibility can result in emergencies being ignored, even when help is clearly needed. […]
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It was close, but not enough. A bill sponsored by state representative Jamie Flick (HB 378) to replace Pennsylvania’s existing family law with a rebuttable presumption of equal shared parenting and 50/50 lost by a 103-99 vote. The amendment also requires, amongst other significant revisions, a judge to provide a written explanation for the decision […]
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Much of the technical knowledge presented the handbook can be further explored within this reading list. All authors are first rate, leading experts within their respective fields (Kahneman and Thayler are Nobel Prize winners). I have listed the books in the order that I suggest you read them, but that’s not necessary. All in the […]
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Member Support Forums: Chapter One Discussion Important Note: The family court is an abusive environment, and it is best not to think of the material in this handbook as a substitute for professional counseling an therapy. Family court litigation is traumatic and destructive, and therapeutic counseling can be a perfectly rational response to your circumstances […]
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Notebook & Site Glossary: Index Of Tactical Notebook Articles In Order Of Suggested Reading: This index is a revision of our now removed Legacy Member Handbook series. New articles are added over time and the index adjusted accordingly. Visist the “Updates” environment (linked in the main navigation menu) to get up to speed or see when […]
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Ohio State Senator Introduces Bill That Will Allow Mothers To Sue Fathers Because Of An Unwanted Pregnancy Supreme Court Chief Justice Roberts warned us. The upholding of the Texas abortion law that allows people to sue abortion providers if they discover someone had an abortion has opened Pandora’s box. Democratic states are using the same […]
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Parental Alienation Strategies There are two primary strategies (typically used in conjunction with each other) that alienators employ to punish and erase the other parent. The first strategy involves the manipulation of the legal system (we’ll get to this later), and the second involves the direct psychological manipulation of the child. Psychological research reveals that […]
Continue reading "Parental Alienation Strategies"Last year, I was having a discussion with a woman I know who was having an on-going custody and child support dispute with the father of her children. Just to lay the groundwork, the father gets 4 hours visitation on Sunday afternoons every two weeks and, he gets to walk his child from her mother’s […]
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I was reminded of the thought expressed in the title to this post the other day, which provoked me to update some older posts that decomposed and explained Title IV-D bonuses and incentives to states (Federal Title IV-D funds are bonuses and incentives paid to states for maximizing, collecting, enforcing, and administering child support payments). […]
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Fighting family court pathology and parental alienation will test the best of us to our limits.
Our "Focus Aides" are everyday-use items designed to provide powerful energizing effects for those impacted by family court pathology or parental alienation. Each piece works quietly to help keep you focused and moving forward.
When you see the item that stops you. That feels like what you need. That feels like it is you. Get it and use it. You'll be glad you did.
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