About The Love & Iron Project Serving Targeted Parents and Families Since 2011. The Problem: A System Built to Exploit Families Family court operates under the banner of “the best interests of the child.” The reality, exposed by decades of clinical research, government census data, and hard-won firsthand experience, tells a very different story. The […]
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The bystander effect is a social psychological phenomenon where individuals are less likely to offer help to a victim when other people are present. The more bystanders there are, the less responsibility each person feels, often leading to inaction. This diffusion of responsibility can result in emergencies being ignored, even when help is clearly needed. […]
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Much of the technical knowledge presented the handbook can be further explored within this reading list. All authors are first rate, leading experts within their respective fields (Kahneman and Thayler are Nobel Prize winners). I have listed the books in the order that I suggest you read them, but that’s not necessary. All in the […]
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Member Support Forums: Chapter One Discussion Important Note: The family court is an abusive environment, and it is best not to think of the material in this handbook as a substitute for professional counseling an therapy. Family court litigation is traumatic and destructive, and therapeutic counseling can be a perfectly rational response to your circumstances […]
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Do not buy into to disinformation promoted by alienating parents and their enablers operating within the family court industry. Parental alienation (PA) is considered a serious form of emotional abuse because it conforms to the standard accepted characteristics of abuse behavior and its effects on children; most notably the deliberate manipulation of a child’s emotions, […]
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You’ve surely have seen seen them on social media: claims that parental alienation is “junk science” used to by the “real abusers” to discredit custodial parents. Well, the purpose of this short article is to help clear-up any confusion you may have about the difference between PAS and PA abuse, and, put you in a […]
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Federal Legislators Propose Enhancements To Title IVD To Enforce Child Support From Conception Here we go again. Maybe you thought the populist right was pro-family, pro-father, pro-equal shared parenting. Nope. Senators Marco Rubio (R- FL) and Kevin Kramer (R-ND) have formally proposed enhancements to Federal Title IVD regulations to incentivize states to start the […]
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Ohio State Senator Introduces Bill That Will Allow Mothers To Sue Fathers Because Of An Unwanted Pregnancy Supreme Court Chief Justice Roberts warned us. The upholding of the Texas abortion law that allows people to sue abortion providers if they discover someone had an abortion has opened Pandora’s box. Democratic states are using the same […]
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Parental Alienation Strategies There are two primary strategies (typically used in conjunction with each other) that alienators employ to punish and erase the other parent. The first strategy involves the manipulation of the legal system (we’ll get to this later), and the second involves the direct psychological manipulation of the child. Psychological research reveals that […]
Continue reading "Parental Alienation Strategies"Last year, I was having a discussion with a woman I know who was having an on-going custody and child support dispute with the father of her children. Just to lay the groundwork, the father gets 4 hours visitation on Sunday afternoons every two weeks and, he gets to walk his child from her mother’s […]
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Fighting family court pathology and parental alienation will test the best of us to our limits.
Our "Focus Aides" are everyday-use items designed to provide powerful energizing effects for those impacted by family court pathology or parental alienation. Each piece works quietly to help keep you focused and moving forward.
When you see the item that stops you. That feels like what you need. That feels like it is you. Get it and use it. You'll be glad you did.
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