Why protecting your mind and redesigning your income may matter as much as anything you do in court. The System Is Counting On You Giving Up If you are in a family court battle, you already know the truth that nobody tells you going in: this is not just a legal fight. It is an […]
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Hey everyone, Quick update on some changes happening with the Love and Iron Project. The following site features have been removed because most people were not using them, so there was no good reason to incur the costs of maintaining them: What’s Been Removed from the Site: Member forums Social networking Chat rooms Member directories […]
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The bystander effect is a social psychological phenomenon where individuals are less likely to offer help to a victim when other people are present. The more bystanders there are, the less responsibility each person feels, often leading to inaction. This diffusion of responsibility can result in emergencies being ignored, even when help is clearly needed. […]
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It was close, but not enough. A bill sponsored by state representative Jamie Flick (HB 378) to replace Pennsylvania’s existing family law with a rebuttable presumption of equal shared parenting and 50/50 lost by a 103-99 vote. The amendment also requires, amongst other significant revisions, a judge to provide a written explanation for the decision […]
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Much of the technical knowledge presented the handbook can be further explored within this reading list. All authors are first rate, leading experts within their respective fields (Kahneman and Thayler are Nobel Prize winners). I have listed the books in the order that I suggest you read them, but that’s not necessary. All in the […]
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Member Support Forums: Chapter One Discussion Important Note: The family court is an abusive environment, and it is best not to think of the material in this handbook as a substitute for professional counseling an therapy. Family court litigation is traumatic and destructive, and therapeutic counseling can be a perfectly rational response to your circumstances […]
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Do a hashtag search for “parental alienation”, “false allegations”, or “joint custody” on social media and you will undoubtedly run across a plethora of posts attempting to discredit parental alienation, reverse the blame for it, or gaslight the audience into accepting that the abuser is the actual victim. Changing and correcting public sentiment about parental […]
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Do not buy into to disinformation promoted by alienating parents and their enablers operating within the family court industry. Parental alienation (PA) is considered a serious form of emotional abuse because it conforms to the standard accepted characteristics of abuse behavior and its effects on children; most notably the deliberate manipulation of a child’s emotions, […]
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You’ve surely have seen seen them on social media: claims that parental alienation is “junk science” used to by the “real abusers” to discredit custodial parents. Well, the purpose of this short article is to help clear-up any confusion you may have about the difference between PAS and PA abuse, and, put you in a […]
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Fighting family court pathology and parental alienation will test the best of us to our limits.
Our "Focus Aides" are everyday-use items designed to provide powerful energizing effects for those impacted by family court pathology or parental alienation. Each piece works quietly to help keep you focused and moving forward.
When you see the item that stops you. That feels like what you need. That feels like it is you. Get it and use it. You'll be glad you did.
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