Recommended Reading

Much of the technical knowledge presented the handbook can be further explored within this reading list.  All authors are first rate, leading experts within their respective fields (Kahneman and Thayler are Nobel Prize winners).

Explore the intersection of psychology, economics, and game theory to develop powerful strategic thinking and planning skills. This curated reading list features essential books that uncover how human behavior, incentives, and decision-making processes shape competitive and cooperative strategies. Whether you’re interested in defeating a family court problem, business, negotiations, or personal development, these recommendations will equip you with the tools to anticipate actions, optimize choices, and gain a strategic edge. Start reading and sharpen your ability to think ahead in any situation!

I have listed the books in the order that I suggest you read them, but that’s not necessary. All in the first section are approachable reads for the layperson, and pretty much all of the contain robust bibliographies to the relevant supporting research if you want to dig even further.

Viktor E. Frankl

An inspirational read about hope and psychological resilience.

Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi

Transformative processes, optimal experience, psychological resilience.

Daniel Kahneman

Human nature,  judgement and biases, choices.

Robert B. Cialdini

Social influence psychology, channeled attention, and tactical influence.

Edward de Bono

Social influence triggers, heuristics, and strategies.

Richard Thayler

Behavioral economics, choice strategy, prediction, biases and exploitable tendencies.

Richard H. Thaler, Cass R. Sunstein

Behavioral economics, incentives, choice architecture, social influence.

Ian Ayers

Incentive structures and strategies.

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Creative problem solving and planning strategies.

Michael Michalko

Title says it all – Handbook of creative thinking and problem solving techniques to make things happen!

Thinkertoys: A Handbook of Creative-Thinking Techniques

Michael Michalko

Again, the title says it all 🙂

Steven D. Levitt, Stephen J. Dubner

A fun but highly insightful read from the Freakonomics guys about how to use economic thinking to solve problems.

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Dan Ariely

Behavioral economics, choices, marketing.

For The Mathematically Inclined:

Colin F. Camerer

Behavioral game theory – Psychological principles and hundreds of experiments that develop mathematical theories of reciprocity, limited strategizing, and learning, which help predict what real people and companies do in strategic situations.

For Those Who Really Love Algebra And Calculus:

Theory of Games and Economic Behavior

John Von Neumann and Oskar Morgenstern

This is the classic work upon which modern-day game theory is based.  The groundbreaking mathematical theory of economic and social organization, based on a theory of games of strategy.


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