Join our Community and Make a Difference for Parents and Children. 

The Love & Iron Project is a community resource for individuals and organizations who possess a commitment to equal shared parenting,  ending parental alienation abuse, and reuniting parents and children estranged by pathological family courts and abusive parents. Mothers, fathers, step-parents, alienated adult children, grand parents, aunts, uncles, cousins, colleagues, and friends  – All who would like some help or support our mission are welcome!

Get The Facts About Parental Alienation

Deadbeat parent or alienated parent?

Help us end the deceit and fix this terrible problem.  Learn about parental alienation abuse and how to spot the difference between a deadbeat parent and a targeted parent.

The Truth About
Family Court

Don’t make the fatal mistake of believing Family Court is about the best interests of children. Family Court is not actually about family at all.

Learn the truth here.

Love, Light, And Accountability

We’ve prepared a brief, sharable article you can use to help others understand the harmful effects of family court pathology.

Share the link. Print a hard copy. Save to a PDF. The choice is yours.

Stay Focused. Stay Energized.

Fighting family court pathology and parental alienation will test the best of us to our limits.

Our "Focus Aides" are everyday-use items designed to provide powerful but subtle psychological priming effects for those impacted by family court pathology or parental alienation. Each piece works quietly to reinforce clarity, joy, resilience, and forward momentum.

Find the item and the message that helps YOU thrive.

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